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Funeral Cover for Extended Family
By FuneralZA editorial team · 8 min read · Updated 30 September 2026

- Legal maximum
- R100 000 per life per insurer, rising with inflation
- Natural-death waiting period
- Six months at most, and none for accidental death
- Parents can often join up to
- Age 84 or 85 at several insurers, see the table
- Plans that exclude parents
- Pep covers only you, your spouse and children
- Complaints
- National Financial Ombud, free
Funeral cover for extended family lets you insure relatives outside your household, such as parents, in-laws, grandparents, siblings, aunts and uncles, on the same policy as you. The rules differ by insurer: who counts as family, how many people you can add, the oldest age at which they can join and how much each person is covered for. By law no insurer may pay more than R100 000 on one life, and that base amount rises each year with inflation.
This guide shows what insurers publish about family limits so you can compare before you add anyone. We are independent and do not sell cover, so confirm the terms with the provider.
Who counts as extended family
Insurers do not use one definition. Some treat parents and parents-in-law as a separate group from other relatives such as siblings, aunts, uncles and cousins. DStv's Individual Extended Funeral Cover, for example, names parents, uncles, aunts, grandparents, siblings, nephews, nieces and cousins aged 18 to 75. Liberty says people who are not blood relatives, such as a domestic worker or gardener, can be covered as extended family. Absa's Eyenu Nonke plan allows up to 10 extended family members at an additional premium.
Check the definition and the maximum number of lives before you promise cover to a relative.
What the insurers publish
This table shows what each insurer says about the size and ages of a family on one policy. Confirm the current limits with the insurer.
| Insurer | Lives on one policy | Parents and extended family |
|---|---|---|
| Sanlam | Up to 30 people | Online plan: parents aged 26 to 85, other family aged 0 to 85 |
| Old Mutual | EasiPlus covers up to 15 members | Parents, in-laws and extended family up to age 84. Extended family plan cover starts at R30 000 |
| Capitec | Up to 21 family members | Parents aged 26 to 85, R50 000 each. Extended family R20 000 (0 to 5) and R50 000 (6 to 85) |
| Metropolitan | Up to 20 lives | Parents and extended family up to R50 000. Lives must be younger than 85 |
| Liberty | Up to 32 people | Up to 8 parents to age 84 (R5 000 to R80 000), up to 10 extended family to age 84 (R5 000 to R50 000) |
| Standard Bank | Unlimited family members | Parents aged 18 to 84 |
| Discovery | Up to 20 dependants | Up to 4 parents and up to 10 extended family members |
| Finchoice | Up to 19 family members | Up to 4 parents to age 75, up to 8 extended family aged 2 weeks to 75 |
| Assupol | Excellence Family: unlimited family members | R100 000 for you, your spouse and parents, R75 000 for other dependants. Absolute Advantage: extended family up to age 79 |
| AVBOB | Cashback plan | Up to four parents and up to six other extended family members, up to R30 000 each |
| Affinity | Up to 12 dependants | Up to 6 extended family members, each up to R10 000 |
| Hollard | Up to 4 parents can be added | Parents up to age 75, at extra premium |
How a family plan works and what it costs
A family plan covers a main member and the people you add on one policy and one premium, and the premium reflects how many people are covered and their ages. Adding a relative to your policy is usually simpler than a separate policy for each person, though we cannot say it is always cheaper, because prices are quoted individually.
Some insurers publish per-person prices. Affinity says extended family can be added at R65 each. RFA's Cover 1 pays R10,000 and has a base premium of R60 that covers the main member, spouse and up to 6 children under 21. Relatives are added on top, priced by age:
| Age of the relative | Parent, in-law or grandparent (max 4), per person | Extended family, per person |
|---|---|---|
| 0 to 64 | R35 | R35 |
| 65 to 74 | R70 | R120 |
| 75 and older | R90 (to age 84) | R170 (to age 79) |
The table shows how quickly the price rises with age. Ask each insurer for the price of every person you plan to add.
Age limits
Every added life has an entry age limit, and older relatives cost more. As the table above shows, parents can join up to 84 or 85 at several insurers, while extended family limits are often lower, such as 79 at Assupol's Absolute Advantage plan and 75 or just under it at Absa, Hollard, Finchoice and DStv. Affinity accepts the main member from 18 to 75. Do not wait until a relative is unwell to add them, because a waiting period will apply. If an older relative is turned away by one insurer, another may accept them, so ask more than one.
Waiting periods for added lives
The rules cap the waiting period for natural death at six months, and no waiting period may apply to accidental death. Ask each insurer when cover starts for a person you add later. Affinity, for example, says six months for natural death and six months on its extended family benefit, with no waiting period for accidental death once the first premium is received. Two Mountains says increases in cover carry a six-month waiting period on the additional amount.
If a relative already had cover with another insurer and served the waiting period, the new insurer may not impose another for similar risks on the same person. Insurers such as AVBOB and Capitec describe how they apply this if your earlier policy was active within 31 days.
Plans that do not suit extended family
Some plans are built for the household only. The plan sold at Pep covers the policyholder, a spouse and children, and parents and extended family cannot be added. Two Mountains lists its burial plans as service value for policyholders only. DStv's cover requires the policyholder to be a South African citizen and a DStv customer, and lives may not be older than 75 when the policy starts, and its Extended Family Funeral Cover allows no more than 2 extended family members older than 17. Icebolethu publishes prices for a single member, a single parent and a family, but its plan pages do not say how extended family is covered. Ask before you assume a relative can be added.
What happens if the policyholder dies
On a family policy the main member's death can leave the rest without a payer. Several insurers say what happens next. Capitec says other lives are covered for 6 months without premiums. OUTsurance says cover for everyone else continues for 3 months with no premiums after a valid claim is paid. Nedbank says premiums are waived for up to 24 months after the policyholder passes away. Assupol's Excellence Family plan has no premiums for 5 years after your death. 1Life has a continuation option under which the first spouse can take over the policy. Compare these benefits, because they decide whether the family keeps its cover.
Keeping it affordable
Insure a sensible amount for each person instead of the maximum for everyone, and cover the people most likely to need it first. Then add others as your budget allows. If you miss a premium, the insurer must tell you within 15 days, and monthly cover stays in force for 15 days after the due date, so pay on time. Use our calculator worksheet to pick amounts and the comparison guide to shortlist insurers. A burial society may suit relatives an insurer will not take, see funeral policy vs burial society.
Frequently asked questions
Who can I add to extended family funeral cover?
It depends on the insurer. Parents and in-laws are the most commonly accepted, and some also take siblings, grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins. Liberty says people who are not blood relatives, such as a domestic worker, can be covered as extended family.
How many people can be on one policy?
It varies. Sanlam says up to 30, Liberty up to 32, Capitec up to 21, Discovery up to 20 dependants, Finchoice up to 19, and Standard Bank has no limit on family members.
Is there an age limit for extended family members?
Yes. Parents can join up to 84 or 85 at several insurers, including Sanlam, Capitec, Old Mutual, Standard Bank and Liberty. Other extended family limits are often lower, for example 75 or just under it at Absa, Hollard, Finchoice and DStv.
Do newly added family members have a waiting period?
Usually a waiting period of up to six months for natural death applies, and none may apply to accidental death. Ask the insurer when cover starts for each person you add.
Can I add my parents to my policy at Pep?
No. The plan sold at Pep covers the policyholder, a spouse and children, and parents and extended family cannot be added.
What happens to the family cover if I die?
It depends on the plan. Capitec covers other lives for 6 months without premiums, OUTsurance for 3 months, and Nedbank waives premiums for up to 24 months. Ask what your plan does.
How do I keep extended family cover affordable?
Insure a sensible amount for each person, prioritise the people most likely to need cover soonest, and add others as your budget allows.




